4 secret ways to adult online dating success
I’ve been doing the whole online dating thing on and off for years now and let me just say, I’ve had the entire range of good, bad and ugly messages arrive in my inbox.There was a time I even created a blog to showcase some of the best of the worst because I felt the world should share in the horror with me.As a single gal in Los Angeles who has been online dating for over 10 years, I have earned my stripes as a dating expert and a dating drama queen.I have experienced and survived all the dramas of online dating and still remain a hopeful romantic.
More than once, I have asked a guy to drive me home before we ever got to the restaurant; and one time, I literally threw an aggressive guy out of my home at the end of a first date. but, know that when things happen too quickly, they often fizzle fast too.Here’s the deal with the messaging thing, a lot of people have their own theories on how it works, what works best, etc. Others try pick-up-artist “negging.” Some send ridiculously long messages about their background and their overall philosophy and what they’re currently doing with their lives.Some guys think that it’s cool to copy and paste and throw out a message like bait in a lake full of carp. I’d like to say there’s no right or wrong way to message someone (everyone usually has something that works for them), but there is definitely a better way.This past week alone I’ve gotten enough poorly executed messages to make me want to curl up in a ball of being-alone-forever.I try not to lose hope that there can be some genuine connections made through meeting someone off of the internet. I have even made several lasting friends from some of my experiences.
I am here to share some coaching advice and guide and support you on your online dating journey: Some dating sites are known and respected for finding love and some are notorious for attracting singles looking for action or a quick hookup.